Ah, the age-old problem of why a 46-24-36 married woman who is off-limits but open to the concept of casual sex is the hot question. It’s a real puzzler, but we spoke to a couple of guys who enlightened me and the attraction towards bhabhi is not new; it’s like an old age affair most of them are following. Age has just become a number when it comes to 21st-century love affairs. The stereotypical dating belief that young men prefer older women have been opposed by many, but it continues to be a romantic trend in today’s world.
Falling in love with a Bhabhi 10, 15, 20 years older, or more can be highly exhilarating too. Older women or Bhabhi are secure in their lives and distinguish between fairy-tale romance and real-life attraction. They are aware of their fantasies, needs, and desires and do not hesitate to share them. Many people consider that boys are sexually attracted towards bhabhi, and the attraction younger men have to older women. However, men offer a few reasons to explain their attraction to these Bhabhi. Most people give no thought to the age gap if the man is older than the woman he loves.
However, couples seem to get weird looks when the woman is the senior in the relationship. This leads to a typical question, why am I attracted to older women.
Here are a few reasons and signs a younger man likes an older woman:
1. Bhabhis are Better In Bed
Bhabhis are much better in bed, so young boys are obsessed with bhabhis. Sexual maturity is one of the most influential reasons. Many younger men have confessed that their older partners are better in bed. This is true; Bhabhis would have had a good amount of sex, and most are aware of the ins and outs of it.
2. Bhabhi is a fantasy they’ve seen before
Savita is a fictional character, but we think men look at it more like a roman-à-clef. And she always comes in (pun not intended, but isn’t it nice when things work out?) the ideal place at the right time. It’s easy to fantasize about her as the hot woman in the office, the super-hot teacher, and a variety of other things, which most men would have been through. So, we guess she’s a nice trip down the memory lane (again, pun not intended) for them.
3. Lustful Relationship
Married women, there is no complication, infidelity, stress just causal SEX every time. It is one of the top reasons young boys and men are sexually attracted to older women. This is also very likely because the typical conservative Indian middle-aged husband is not likely to be a great lover.
4. Bhabhis are subservient, eager to please, and quite dumb
Let us go ahead and look at that comic strip first. As explained, she is always ready to serve and delight in whatever way she can. Let’s not forget that her IQ is just as big as her chest size. And reading such comics drives these young boys to have sex or fantasize about bhabhis.
5. No Problem Of Finding Place For Intimacy
The logistics of having an affair with a woman who has her own house (or husband’s house) is much simpler. One of our viewers said, “I am well over 23, but neither my partner nor I have enough privacy in our homes to make a romp of it, and we both have to rely on visiting a hotel or charitable friends’ places.
6. Emotionally And Sexually Mature
Usually, the men prefer older women because they are not emotionally and sexually immature. We read all the time on Quora and the internet about college-aged girls with problems like “in a relationship for three years, but haven’t kissed”. We think young women in India are primarily stuffy about sex, which applies to guys. A more experienced and sensual woman is an excellent way to introduce healthy sexuality.
7. Curves Ahead Always Better
We think Indian guys are obsessed with slim figures and impossible vital statistics. It seems like more cushion for the pushin’ is acceptable and even desirable.
8. Freedom and Independence
Bhabhis have more knowledge in matters of love and romance, and they are more stable and less insecure when it comes to relationships. They know their way around pleasing boys and understand where and when to stop. Their perspective on life is more liberated, and therefore, it gives me a sense of freedom and independence.
Older women appear to find younger men to bring them emotional satisfaction and fulfillment. Younger men find older women more physically attractive, and their maturity is an appealing feature to men. But everything leads to a common question, why am I attracted to older women.
We just hope it is now very much clear!